Dagnabits Blog

Yet another  weblog by Thom Forbes, this one with no boundaries — like recovery, animals, obituaries, poker, softball, Hastings trailways or prostate cancer — and no fear of the occasional flummadiddle

At Play At Work

I have been maneuvering my career into a converging direction with much of the rest of my life for several months now. The first public manifestation of this is a Twitter feed, playgruntlaugh, which I launched yesterday. It will reflect my love of playing games, working out, cooking healthy foods, eating well, and having fun. A website and community will follow by spring.

Becoming and staying fit demands desire and discipline.  That's the grunt part. But it need not be — it should not be —…

Respite in Costa Rica

Respite in Costa Rica

Anthony's Nose

Anthony's Nose

Backyard View & Labyrinth

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The blue in the middle is the Hudson.

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The labyrinth.

Put Your Mind Where Your Body Is

If I weren't so absent-minded, I probably would have made a good absent-minded professor. It's not that I would not have completed my dissertation like so many others. I would not have figured out what field it should be in in the first place (although quite a few would have been eliminated by natural selection).

But I digress. Which is the point.

My thoughts tend to wander; My attention is easily nabbed; I am frequently accused by my family of leaving "ummms" in the air; and many a story I…

Spillage
Or, A 'X@fS Nuts!' Situation Ain't Necessarily All That Bad Or, Brian Murphy For Hire For Interior Painting This Winter

In Progress

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Contact Brian here. Some trim work remains , as does work on the back and other side, but the house has been rejuvenated and will be completed within the month.

Before

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The front of the first story had been covered with ivy; tendrils clung tenaciously to the walls after it was ripped off.  Brian then diligently washed, scraped and sanded while accompanying some pretty heavy metal on his iPod.

We are painting the house. Well, that's a gross misuse of the royal "we." We are actually paying to have the house painted. Brian Murphy, one of our daughter's friends, is doing the job, and he's doing it quite well. Neighbors ooh and ahh. He's too modest to say "thank you." Instead he tells them that "Mr. and Mrs. Forbes picked nice colors."

I basically have one task beside paying Brian's quite reasonable fee and occasionally reminding him that winter is fast approaching and he need not obsess…

On a Soldier's Suicide

Deirdre had a moving letter about a young soldier's suicide published in the Journal News yesterday. Here it is for when the link disappears behind a pay-only archive:

U.S. soldier's death strikes a chord

Sometimes I turn the page in the newspaper without reading past the headline. But today, something compelled me to read about Army Pvt. Keiffer Wilhelm, 19, of Plymouth, Ohio. Maybe his unusual name intrigued me. Maybe it was his age, a year younger than my only son, who I just watched play…

The Hudson

The river has been my soulmate for neatly 50 years. To celebrate it, I've created a new section on the site at http://tforbes.com/the_hudson/.

Harlem Valley Rail Trail

Harlem Valley Rail Trail

The High Line

The High Line

Thom, Deirdre and Rebecca on 18th St., where I managed to park the car 10 yards from the stairway up to the High Line on the first pass. I probably used up five years worth of NYC parking karma  on this. Photo by Mike Barrett.

May There Always Be News Wars

Elizabeth Williamson had a good piece in the Wall Street Journal Friday about the newspaper war on Martha's Vineyard between the fabled Gazette and the townie's TImes.

Twenty-five years ago, Deirdre and I went to the Vineyard to interview the Gazette's Henry Beetle Hough, one of my heroes. There was another weekly newspaper competing with it at the time, and the Times was about to be launched. I covered the newspaper  "war" in a sidebar.

As I wrote in a comment to Williamson's story, "We can…

Rockefeller State Park Preserve

Rockefeller State Park Preserve

Teatown Lake and New Croton Dam

Teatown Lake and New Croton Dam

Rockwood Hall

Rockwood Hall

Of Hardscrabble Wilderness and Wives

Of Hardscrabble Wilderness and Wives

Farewell, Gene

Gene McCarthy told me a couple of week's ago that he was taking a "change-of-scenery" assignment in Fleetwood after serving at the Hastings-on-Hudson post office for 16 years (minus a couple of years misspent elsewhere). I thought at the time that I ought to take his picture and write a little something about it, but ideas like that fly through my head all the time. Something, however, drew me to the P.O., out of the blue, a few minutes ago.

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I waited until Gene's line was clear and showed…

Could I Modify That? No? Okay, Thought I'd Ask. 

There is a book out
that quotes me.
I remember saying
what it says I said,
but I don't believe
I said it.

Rocks and Idiosyncrascies

Rocks and Idiosyncrascies

Then the Crows Came

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"My son says

the subway doors

are not quite

an E flat

when they close,"

she said.


The man

who tunes pianos

smiled knowingly.


"He will have to learn

to make accommodations",

he said,

"because the world

is not

in perfect pitch."


Then the crows came.

So bleak.

So scrawny.


Compared to what?


Smaller birds squawk

apocalyptically

at their presence.


But they are not hawks.


They perch

rather than swoop.

They natter and conspire

rather than act.

They are malevolent

not amoral.

Their arrogant…

Same Old, Same Old River ... But Different

Same Old, Same Old River ... But Different

Sublime Seredipity

On the way to the river, I chanced upon an outdoor concert  by the Hastings Bluemothers at the Hastings Station cafe. And wouldn't you know that the second song they played, even as I decided to try out the video capabilities of the Canon PowerShot from across the plaza, was a Van Morrison classic? They do a nice set and are worth catching if you're in the area.

Take Me Out To The New Stadium

Take Me Out To The New Stadium

The World's Most Perverse  Copyboy

I lured Jim Meehan, a copyboy crony from 35 years ago or so, out of his Nyack lair to fulfill a 20-year ritual of falsely promising each other that we'd get together at a Yankee game.  

(Jim last week: "I don't know. Doesn't anyone else want to go? I'm not much of an athlete." Thom: "Don't worry. They're not going to ask you to pinch hit." Jim: "Call me if you can't find anybody else." I ignored him, knowing that he'd accept after consulting with his brain trust, Debbie.)

Jim (see photo below), it turns out, has been preparing for the Goose Gossage lookalike contest  that, alas, wasn't actually held yesterday. Maybe in 2029.

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Portraits of Jim by his talented sons Patrick and Joe, in front of some of Jim's own art, show the whiskers at a more incipient, if not as insouciant, stage.

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